Monday, September 9, 2013

The Fastest Way to Change Yourself is to Hang Out With the People You Want to Be Like

Whether you want to be an excellent cook, an knowledgeable parent, an experienced foodie or just reduce your carbon foot print. One of the quickest ways to change yourself is to spend time with the people you want to be like.

If you want to be an excellent mom, find other moms who have done a great job and are a little ahead of you in the process. Ask if you can hang out with them once a week or once a month.

If the process of being a dad seems a little overwhelming from time to time. Find some other men that have been through the stage you are in and pick their brains. Don't be shy, do a little parental networking.

Cooking can seem like a lost art, find some folks of like mind and spend some time cooking together. No one has all the answers and we can learn from each other.

I'm not sure how you get to be a foodie, but I'm sure if you hang out with other foodies you get better at it.

The reverse of this process is also true, if you hang out with people who are the opposite of who you want to be they will rub off on you. If someone uses coarse language, you will pick up these manerisms. If someone has poor habits with money like over spending or shopping beyond their means, this can affect your spending patterns. If someone has the "spirit of Eore", this can also be contagious.

So do your homework and spend time with people who you want to be like.

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